I had to take a social media break.
It’s good to be back! I’m not at full capacity yet but I’m getting there. I took a break because I had a hysterectomy. Yay! I no longer have a uterus causing me pain!
Here are a few things I learned over the last couple weeks. I am so grateful for friends. I had my surgery and then a week later, Denise had her surgery. Without friends to come and check on us, bring us food, and visit us, we would have a lot harder time. I don’t usually ask for people to help but one thing I learned from Edwene Gaines is that in order to be a good giver, you must also be a good receiver. So, I asked for help and we had people jump in.
I’m grateful for a 17 year old that can drive and was able to help us run some errands and help us with Darrin. Sydney really stepped up the last three weeks. She did it and she was kind and compassionate about it. I am so impressed with how much work Denise has done so the kids are decent human beings.
I learned there’s no reason to push it. Bottom line, I spent the first week completely exhausted and unable to do anything but sleep and eat. I would try to do a simple task, like wash the dishes, and end up in pain and sleeping the rest of the day. Denise brought up that I’m impeding my own healing by trying to push beyond what my body is ready to do. Right now, I’m starting to feel better and want to go and do a bunch but I am learning to pace myself and give my body time to catch up with all the activity. I can’t do everything I did 3 weeks ago-and that’s OK.
The past three weeks have really helped me let go of this idea that I have to be super human all the time. I’m fortunate I have such a supportive partner that reminds me that we are human and nothing is going to crash and burn if we need to take time out to heal and take care of our well-being. I’ve also let go of the pressure I put on myself to engage in social media all the time. While I like connecting with everyone on social media, no one NEEDS me to post or engage. I’ll be getting back to regularly scheduled blog posts on Tuesdays. Denise has been writing a lot of articles lately and I’m excited to get her work out into the world.
Thanks for your patience while I’m recovering.
Stay well, friends. YOU are important.
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